8 Ways To Keep Your Husband Interested and Head Over Heels In Love With You
1. Be yourself- be confidence
Have a hobby or passion. Don’t be available ALL the time. Keep your schedule balanced and keep doing all the stuff that keeps you happy, fulfilled, refreshed and revitalized. Every guy will be attracted to a girl who has confidence, high self-esteem and a strong attitude. It makes he feel you are attractive, desired and the most amazing person they’ve met.
2. Let your guy do his own thing also
Let your guy do his own thing also. If he says he’s going fishing with the guys or anything else that involves hanging out with them, LET HIM. All guys in a relationship need to feel free – within a reasonable level, of course.
3. Show appreciation for his efforts
A guy needs to know that you appreciate and cherish who he is now, and who he’s capable of being in the future. This makes him feel accepted and secure in the knowledge that you’re rooting for him.
4. Tell him that you need him
Any guy would want to be the main savior for his girl. So, if you tell him that you need him to be the support in your life, he will feel good in his own skin. He will think that he has finally found the girl of his dreams and that he can be happy with you.
5. Make the normal, mundane things exciting
Put a little spice into everyday life by adding a little spontaneity. For example, give him a mystery date experience and blindfold him the second he comes home. Take him to the dining room and remove his blindfold to reveal his favorite home-cooked meal. After dinner, blindfold him again and lead him to the bathroom for a hot shower. When he finishes, blindfold him once more and take him into the living room to watch a movie. He’ll love the mystery and excitement you add to mundane life.
6. Plan surprise dates and mini-vacays
Plan surprise dinner dates and mini-vacations for him to rekindle the enthusiasm in your marriage. These surprise trips should be meticulously planned and executed so that your husband understands his significance in your life. It will also allow him to rediscover you in a fresh light, free from the constraints of family commitments. Make plans to go on lengthy drives and try new places together.
7. Keep him busy in the bedroom.
Men want to be WANTED, just like you do. And when you only have eyes for each other— he won’t even want to look elsewhere.
For starters, don’t be afraid to touch him even when you’re not doing the deed. Hold his hand in public, touch his arm often and give him a kiss before parting ways.
As for the main event, communicate your desires to him when you’re in the heat of the moment. Tell him when he’s doing it right, get a bit vocal and compliment him on his masculinity.
Once your guy knows he’s making the right choice by being with you, you won’t have to worry about where you stand with him.
8. Take up his favourite activity together
It’s critical to grow and change as a couple in order to keep the love alive in your marriage. Consider taking up any activity together that your husband loves the most. If he’s a member of any club, you can join as well to keep him company and spend more time with him. Pursuing activities together will reignite the embers that have gone out in your relationship.
