5 Signs He Only Sees You As An Option, But Not A Priority
1. He only really shows up when he needs something from you.
They only answer or contact you when they want something. They are otherwise too busy to call you back, but give you the cold shoulder if you don’t respond instantly, even if you are really busy with work.
2. He doesn’t open up to you about his life.
Without the pure feeling of love, you can’t open up to someone. If you’ve tried to ask him about his past and he’s reluctant to tell you, it’s probably because he has a hard time letting people in. If he doesn’t respect you enough to include you in these conversations, it definitely means he sees you as more of a superficial relationship.
3. He is more interested in the physical aspect than in getting to know you
If your partner is only interested in the physical. He or she doesn’t want to spend time together when you are just getting to know each other through enlightening conversations. This could be a sign that he is not prioritizing the type of relationship you want.
4. You feel like you are not as important to him
You may feel like you’re making every effort in your relationship, but you don’t feel like it’s mutual. If you’re the only one calling, texting or setting up appointments all the time. He takes forever to respond to your texts, never makes plans, and never calls or texts first, then you have reason to be alarmed.
He always forgets dates and events that are important to you. You are the only one who remembers your birthday, anniversary or other important moments in your life, and he never does the same for you.
5. You usually feel unhappy and badly used
He makes you feel truly unhappy, insecure and badly treated. All your insecurities are exacerbated in his presence, and you are depressed. You constantly feel like you are being taken advantage of. Trust your instincts, and if you find yourself constantly sacrificing your life and dreams for your partner, it’s time to rethink your relationship priorities.
