Once in a while it is okay if you do things that make your man happy. Most men are often pretty predictable in bed and out and thus they don’t really need to ask for anything. However, in case you were wondering as to what does a man actually need and want in bed and out, then this is the right place to know. We have listed down seven things that we think men need and these things will turn him on!
We asked some guys and their answers ranged from the raunchy to the (almost) romantic. But men aren’t so different from women after all—they just want to be pampered and feel loved. Sound familiar?
1. Remind him how hot he is.
Men have self-esteem issues too. Daniel, 29, says:
“I’m not vain, but sometimes I need affirmations about my appearance. I always tell my girlfriend she’s beautiful, but she never returns the favor,”.
“I don’t need to hear I love you’ more, but a You look handsome’ would be great.”
2. Make a grand gesture.
We women aren’t the only ones craving a little romance. Darrel, 41 says:
“The coolest thing a girl has ever done was send me flowers. I was on a business trip for a week, and when I got to the room, they were waiting for me with a nice note,”
“I have no idea how she did it! But it’s 15 years later and I still haven’t forgotten it.”
3. Go outside your comfort zone.
So you like foreign films and he likes fishing? Indulge him every once in a while. “I wish she were more outdoorsy! I love to go out and be active; she always wants to stay inside,” says Ryan, 22.
4. Take charge.
Sometimes guys want to feel like the ones being dominated. “I really wish a woman would push my back against the wall, straddle me and then grind to cl*max,” says Michael, 29.
5. Pick up the tab.
“I wish she would treat me to a nice meal at a fancy restaurant,” says Wagner, 27. Men like to be wined and dined too, ladies.
6. Lend a hand.
No, not that way (although he probably wouldn’t turn that down). We’re talking about using your hands for back scratching, shoulder rubbing and any other massaging techniques you can think of.
7. Make some noise.
When you’re between the sheets, m.o.a.n, breathe heavily, maybe even scream. “We want to feel like we’re doing a good job, and there’s nothing worse than someone who seems bored,” says Chad, 22. “We want to think we’re rocking your world and that you’re enjoying rocking ours.”
8. Plan the date for us.
Are you Sick of the What Do You Want to Do game? So is he. “She always puts pressure on me to come up with great dates. I wish she would organize stuff for us to do once in a while,” says Mark, 25. “Take me out for a change!”
9. Listen. No, really.
More than one man complained that women hear only what they want to hear during fights. “Be more understanding. A lot of times women don’t see things from a male perspective,” says Saeed, 35.
References: glamour.com, india.com
