8 signs you’re just forcing your relationship to last
1. You constantly fight over petty and insignificant issues
If you fight and argue over small things, it is clear that you have a problem in your relationship. But if your partner gets carried away over small issues, he or she has lost patience and is no longer interested in a relationship with you.
2. You spend more time on other things
You’re just not interested in each other anymore and don’t want to make an effort, so you avoid each other as much as possible to delay the inevitable breakup. You spend time together as an obligation.
3. You are not excited about your future together.
You may have made plans together, but you’re not excited about making them happen. If you feel uncomfortable, unsure or worried, and wonder if this is the future you want, it probably isn’t.
4. You find yourself interested in other people
If you’re thinking about other people more and more often, it’s a clear sign that your relationship is over, but you haven’t admitted it yet.
5. You don’t trust them
If you don’t trust them to stay faithful, they are definitely not the one. If they are someone worth dating, you will trust their opinions, value their input, and believe in them.
6. The silence is deafening
You don’t talk to each other anymore, not really. There are no more deep conversations or those that show you still care about him. There are no sweet words, only silence.
7. There is no peace in your heart during the relationship.
Do you feel guilty every time you say “I love you” to your partner or every time you have those dreamy talks about your future family? Maybe it’s because you know deep down you’re lying to your partner and to yourself.
8. You don’t worry too much about the end of the relationship.
When you’re not afraid of losing someone, you don’t really want to keep them. You may have already broken up with this person in your head, but you’re just afraid to do it for real. Don’t be afraid. It’s better to be honest with the person and give them a chance to find someone else than to make them work when you know you don’t want to be with them.
